LIFE IS FULL OF MYSTERY;disappointment guaranted!.Webster defines disappointment as,’When expectations fail to be met,producing anger,frustration,sadness and discouragement’.Everyone is meant to face as many as life dictates.No one is exempted from disappointment.Even God that created the heavens and the earth is not exempted.AT one point or the other everyone has disappointed him.Even today many of us have disapppointed Him.
We have different kind of disappointment and handling each of them is different.Just like our faces are different so also is dissapointment.What do you do when YOU ARE DISAPPOINTED WITH THOSE YOU SEE AS ROLE MODEL?.This list includes your parents,brothers,pastors,imam,royal fathers , boss in office and etc.When you believe you have a mentor and you entrust everything to him and suddenly you discovered he has a serious character flaw and abused the priviledge you gave him,bringing shame and disrepute to the relationship ,you must keep your eyes on your dream and remain focus.You must not not allow the confidence you have built over the past years to just disappeared into thin air.No!
You must focus your eyes on God because When God make a promise He will always keep it,but you have to be willing to remove the training wheels of your reliance on people.When you see people pushes you out of your comfort zone you must know that God is prepared to get you on the side of destiny but you must expect to go through some unfamiliar,anxiety-producing territory.It’s the only way to go from frustration -to fulfilment.
When your anger seems uncontrollable,you must allow forgiveness to creep in,so that bitterness can ease off slowly.It may not be immediately but you must remember some of the old good time you had with the person that has dissapointed you.Because whether you like it or not,no human being is perfect and even the devil itself had is good side.
YOU MUST STICK WITH THE GOOD SIDE AND WHEN YOU DO THIS,God takes away an old source or system and gives you a new one.It does not mean the old one was not good or the person is that bad.It just means He’s chosen a new way of guiding and providing.When this happen you are ready to move on seeing the dissapointment has a ladder to the next level.
