DIVORCE:A CURSE OR A CAUSE

There is a plague that seems to gradually affect the whole essence of human existence.No one can really tell when and where it was born.A silent but deadly threat it has become.Divorce is its name.Destruction of marriages is its primary aim.All over the world,courts of law,elders’ council and family gatherings are never tired of entertaining divorce cases.Ironically,these same institutions,among others,also endorse the union of of couples in holy matrimonies.

Why do we move from saying ”i do” to ”we are through”? To an extent,everyone is meant to be social.As we go about our daily endeavours,we meet and relate with people.At that juncture,we can choose some for dating until one makes it with us to the alter.Unfortunately,over a period of time,couples may get disappointed in the ones they appointed in the ones they appointed.

Is that enough reason to quit? Although insincerity and incompartaability are mostly the reasons for divorce cases,one major feature can never be left out.Everyone needs to always improve his or her own personality.

In the final analysis,some of us believe that divorce is a taboo while others see it as a tool.Here is the ‘marital truth’.If you can not be truthful and follow it through,do not say ‘i do’.Come to think of it,this cuts across all walks of life,too.

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