Earthquakes RESULT from two tectonic plates on a fault line shifting against one another,then moving in opposite directions.and thats what happens when you bond with the wrong people.You must be careful of the people you associate with.Especially people who only talk negative and carry the attitude of” I dont think it is possible”.Those you allow will become a ….. thorns in your flesh.
When a relationship is not going the way you expect and your efforts to make something out of it has failed,aknowledge it.Sometime you just have to swallow your pride and admit that instead of lifting them up,they are dragging you down.Leaving somebody or releasing them doesn’t mean they’ll never improve,it jut mean someone else or better still God is better suited to the job.
You must be careful about those who are always trying to make you feel guity for not’ being there’.Only God can always be there!.There is a difference between helping somebody and carrying them.Your help may actually be their handicap..
How do you know how suited are they to handling the challenges when you are always the one doing the job.Your need to be needed could be getting in the way of thier need to grow.Step back and let them walk on thier own. Remember not everyone will be happy when you do that,but they’re not supposed to be.
Don’t let fear criticism overwhelm your sense of judgement and common sense because people don’t take confrontation well,but this is a matter of survival.
You must understand that every relationship is for a reason and a season.Discern those who belonged in your past,from those who belong in your life now
