Global economic meltdown, financial difficulties, accidents, failing marriages, unruly kids, businesses on the verge of winding up……….. everyone has a share of difficult circumstances. What makes some overcome and live “problem free” lives is their mindset. Do you see the cup as half full or half empty?
Our general perspective of life greatly influences the way we face challenges and their outcome. It will help a great deal if we bear in mind the saying: “if it doesn’t kill you, it will only make you stronger. In actual fact, it is easier said than done. Sometimes we feel if it wasn’t for bad luck, we wouldn’t have any luck at all. At such times, it may be best to step out of yourself or your situation and view things with fresh eyes from a new perspective. You are likely to realize that things might not be as bad as they seem. You might even come up with a new way to tackle the problems you have.
Instead of tearing yourself down, try pumping yourself up. Avoid wallowing in self pity because it changes nothing. Rather, it compounds situations. Try turning your negatives into positives.
You’re unemployed?
No, you’re just between jobs.
You’re broke?
No, you’re just one of many financially challenged people who’s making his/her way to the top.
Instead of asking yourself “why?” ask yourself “how”
“Why don’t I have money?”
“How do I get money”
“Why is my life upside – down?”
“How can my life be better”
“Why do I hate my job?”
“How can I get a better job?”
“Why can’t I find the perfect person to marry?”
“How can I get the perfect person to marry?”
It is important to note that having a positive mindset in the midst of trials does not mean living in fool’s paradise. Rather, the major aim is to raise your morale so your challenges would be tackled efficiently. Consume your mind with so many positives that you wouldn’t have time to dwell on the negatives. What you see depends on where you stand. If you see trouble, you’ll stand in the midst of difficulties, if you see fear, you will stand in the place of anxiety. So ask yourself, “Is the glass half full or half empty?”
