Being in the ‘position’ of a role model, that is, someone to be copied or a worthy person who is a good example for other people, may sometimes seem overwhelming to you especially if you unknowingly made yourself one! Take refuge in the fact that every one of us may be role models for others in our own different ways. It maybe in our disposition, manners, character, the healthy lifestyle we indulge in, our unique way of dressing modestly , and what really sums us up as the person we are.
A parent may be a role model for the child, an elder sibling may be a role model for the younger ones, a spouse could be a role model for the other, a friend for another, a leader for his subjects, a boss for his employees, a celebrity for the fans. Notwithstanding the position one finds himself, it is important to portray the positive aspect of you to be emulated. Always remember you have been given a responsibility to another human being by ascending the post of a role model. Never feel overwhelmed by its demands. However, you are allowed to be tempted to feel it is demanding sometimes, other times, you may argue that it is unfair to you because your life seems to be revolved around impressing others, whereupon you may run the risk of not actually ‘being yourself.’ Well, yes, but when these thoughts creep into your mind, erase it swiftly and completely and immense yourself in the comfort of knowing that you possess an exceptional quality which makes you the model you are. Let this thought then become the motor that gives you the energy that you lack to take control of things and help you progress and improve yourself constructively. You should feel liberated by just knowing that you are indeed this role model.
Even when you slip—as every human being is wont to—do not be frightened, lack the confidence, apprehensive, reluctant or regretful to take responsibility for your actions or words or deeds. You are human, and by your nature, you are allowed to make mistakes, but how you right your wrong will tell how much of a role model you are and should be. Why not freeze the moment and enjoy it for as long as it will stay knowing that you are influencing someone today for the better. Admit it, it rather feels nice knowing that someone somewhere holds you at the centre of his or her universe!
