Part 1: bitter or better?
Everybody wants to be a world changer, forgetting that you must first be a self changer. It begins with you. The foundation for a successful relationship is you.
You are either bitter or better in your relationships. If you are bitter you are disconnected from your divine root and a bitter person is a wicked person, he misplaces value and would rather sell he’s future than buy it.
Three most important factors when building a Better You:
1. Value
2. Consistency
3. Vision
Value: A dictionary define it as “Respect, Esteem and Prize (Regard Highly; think much of). You have to constantly place a value on yourself because that is what determines your value among others. A bitter person is willing to sell he’s future for momentary happiness. A better you will provoke a better others. The root of bitterness is self hatred, so you must love yourself and live in the consciousness that you are a person of value and therefore you are valued by others. You will always love your neighbor at the degree in which you love yourself.
a. Self Pride: Believe and have pride in yourself
b. Selfishness: Trying to benefit yourself by using others will only kill your value so you do everything to avoid it.
c. Self Love: Giving to others even as you have. You are not what you do not have. In other to take absolute care of others you have to take absolute care of yourself. Self health is traceable to self love and self love is expressed through giving. If you do not give, then you do not yourself.
Bitterness always finds expression through several ways e.g, the way you project yourself, your attitude with others and your relationship with others.
The way you see yourself will project how others see you and the more you want other people to be better, the better your life will become.
Stay Blessed.
You have no limit!
ADENIJI ENIOLA MABEL
