Ever wondered why there is so much emphasis on marrying the right spouse? is more than just beauty, society status, exposure and ethnicity, the society that we see today is a collective produce of different backgrounds, is very important that we make healthy choice of spouse, yes i said healthy, thinking about your self while reading this, you will know that one of greatest asset today is character not only beauty, all though looks is important, but it takes attitude to maintain any form of relationship. this takes back to mu NYSC year, my state coordinator was giving a speech about we should represent our selves the right way, and mention that one of the coppers in the last badge stole some money from his company and was caught, which was a big shame, you won’t believe the response, instead of everyone to feel sober for the guy who was arrested, they entire coppers started clapping their hands, cheering the copper did well, for a moment i was shocked, thinking where is Nigeria going to? with future leaders with the wrong mindset, it brings us back to the home, where we have the foundation of any life. sometimes you wonder in some years time if people will go to bed with their two eyes closed in this country in years time to come, you know what i know? it starts with me and you, from your immediate environment, from that domestic job, you probably think has nothing good to offer and that no one appreciates you, so you have to shady to get by, it starts with that child whose parent’s encourage buying of result and an excessive Libra live style all in the name of exposure and westernization, which could lead to understanding alcoholism, drugs, reckless driving, name it the list goes on. yes we all are not perfect, my ex-boss will say the reason you know your weakness is so you can work on it, not dwell on it.
