you cannot antagonize and influence at the same time, nobody can be told too often that he or she is loved. every man is entitled to be valued by his best moments. it is a problem to whittle down others in order to seem bigger in comparison. Brains are like hearts, they go where they are appreciated, people reflect more on their strength than their weakness and shortcoming, remember the good times together to enable you forget the ugly and the moment of betrayers.life is short why have a permanent enemy,leave vengeance for God. problems create room for growth and overcoming of obstacles in life. concentrate on the message and not on the messenger.when a person feels encouraged,he can face the impossible and overcome incredible adversity.few things help a person the ways encouragement does.correction does much, but encouragement after a censure is as the sun after a shower. flatter me, and I may not believe you.criticize me and I may not like you.Ignor me and I may forgive you.encourage me and I will not forget you.self esteem is the most significant key to a person’s behavior. keep away from people who discourage others, stomp on their creativity, and tell them what they don,t do.there are two lawn-mowers; people who have good initiatives but are self absorbed, who mow their own lawns but never help others and the life enhancers, those who reach out to enrich the lives of others, life them up and inspire them. unless God has raised you up for a purpose, you will be worn out by opposition of men and the devils. there are no hopeless situations, there are only Men and Women that have grown
hopeless about themselves. every one has an invisible sign hanging from his neck saying make me feel important. never let the fear of striking out get in the way, if you have the will to win, you have achieved half your success but if you don’t then you failure.to be what we are and to become what we are capable of becoming, is the only end of life.you are aren’t learning nothing when you are doing all the talking. every man I met in some way is my superior and I can learn out of him. big people monopolized the listening, small people monopolized the talking. remember, a deaf ear is evidence of a closed mind. know how to listen and you will profit even from those who talk badly.Always remember that there are only two kind of people in the world; the realist and the dreamers.the realist know where they are going. the dreamers have already been there.no one becomes rich except he enriches another.out of every crises comes the chances to be reborn, out of a time of struggle and crises has come new growth and success. there are no impossible problems, time, thought and a positive
attitude can solve just about anything. all things be equal, people will do business with people they like, all things not being equal they still will.Man is made so that when anything fires his soul, impossibility vanish. to end this piece don’t judge each day by the harvest you reap but by the seeds you sows.
