We were able to look at some consequences of pre-marital sex in the write-up published some time ago. Now we are going to look at more consequences to see if this act is what someone can be comfortably at home with, or what we can avoid as much as possible. Below are more consequences:
1. Leads to other crimes
2. Distrust among the couples
3. Lack of boldness to admonish children
4. Getting married to someone you didn’t plan
LEADS TO OTHER CRIMES
I have come to realize that little sin gives birth to grandchildren. If someone tells lie for instance, and the lie wants to get exposed, he will look for more lies to tell in order to cover the first one he has told.
In the same case, if someone indulged in pre-marital sex, she might be blessed with pregnancy and because she is not yet ready for that, she might start thinking of a way to eradicate the baby. The sin of fornication will then give birth to murder which can even take the mother’s life.
DISTRUST AMONG THE COUPLES
If eventually, they get to marry themselves after the act. There is tendency that distrust will arise once in a while. If the wife is the kind that greets and socializes, the hussy might start thinking that something has started going on between his wife and the numerous people she greets. And if the husband is the kind that plays a lot, the wife might start thinking that he is now looking outside since he was not able to wait for them to go to the altar before getting to know her. Though, they might not voice these things out but the war will be going on inwardly. Some funny ones might start laying hands on irrelevant things to fight without mentioning the main thing that is making him/her angry.
LACK OF BOLDNESS TO ADMONISH CHILDREN
One can only boldly correct someone if he is doing it right. If one is not able to hold himself before getting married, it will be difficult to correct the children when they start misbehaving. Even if that is done out of authority one possesses as the parent, the mind will in one way or the other tell you that you didn’t follow the necessary steps before getting married to their mother.
GETTING MARRIED TO SOMEONE YOU DIDN’T PLAN
Most time, I believe that people don’t go into sex because they love the person, rather because they were not able to control their emotions at the moment. While others are because they are not able to differentiate between Infatuation and Real Love. I pray for God’s grace to write on Infatuation and Real Love soonest. Now when this happens, they might be left with no option than to marry themselves. After some years, incompatibility might dawn on them, which they were unable to detect at the initial stage because of sex. Then the marriage institution that suppose to be a happy union will then turn to managing institution.
I beg to drop my writing tool here; I will be with you next time.
