They say whatever makes a man to be angry controls him. Anger is a feeling, a natural emotion, a human response to your safety, well-being, and happiness. Whenever husband or wife smells is a sign of angry feelings coming on in the home, there must be a courteous way of expressing these angry feelings in the same way. These feelings should be expressed in much the same tone as they would say, “I’m tired,” or “I’m very tired.” Couples who effectively manage their anger agree that it is necessary to express and acknowledge it.
Recognizing what makes us angry can help us find better ways to cope with this emotional feeling before it goes out of control in the home. It’s not whether we get angry, but what we do with our anger that matters. Our responses can turn into constructive or destructive behavior which can make or mar our relationship in the home. Therefore couple can disgrace this “master-controller” by taking note of the followings:
- Recognizing what makes us angry can help us find better ways to cope with this emotion.
- It’s not whether we get angry, but what we do with our anger that matters.
- Unresolved anger is the principal cause of violence toward another person.
- Successful anger management can mean the difference between marital joy and absolute misery.
- Both must know that it is not God’s plan for them to be angry with each other but devil’s
- It should be an indication that God is interested in the affairs of that family
- Both should have absolute determination not to give devil excitement through continuous anger in the home.
- The success or failure of a marriage may depend on the way a couple copes with their anger.
