Many guys thinks it’s very hard to get a woman’s number especially a beautiful woman. They see them as exceptional beings that are too sacred to approach. I wonder what put that kind of thought in them in the first place. Some guys just can’t bring themselves to approach women and start a conversation, not to talk of getting her number! In my opinion, that’s real dumb. But hey, I don’t blame them because they never learned.
The FACT is when you approach any woman, she will always respond somewhere between ”neutral” and ”’positive”. To put it differently, out of the many times I have approached women and watch my friends approach women, I have rarely seen a situation where the woman gets upset and respond in a rude way or act offended. The worst case scenario you will ever experience is the woman in question not stopping at all or responding coldly. Aside that, they can’t bite you!
Moreover, another important point to note is that whenever you approach a woman and she responds in a way that is not positive or receptive, it’s usually about her and not about me. Either she is in a hurry ,not available, not a nice person or some other reason that is beyond your control. Another thing to note is that whenever you approach women, they assume you are interested in more than friendship from the very beginning no matter what you say or do.
So how do you get her number?
If you really wanna get her number withing minutes of talking to her, then you have to be good at what you are doing. Pretending that you ‘re nice, friendly guy who’s only starting an innocent conversation won’t work! Many guys think you can’t get a woman’s number withing minutes of talking to her. Wrong! It amazes me though that women give out their numbers after minutes of talking to them. But I have been getting numbers like that countless times, so why wouldn’t you? The point is you have to act cool about it, like it’s no big deal or something.
This is how you actually get her number. After talking to her a few minutes say, ”I’m going to get back to my friends, it was nice talking to you”, and then turn away from her and begin to leave. Now, just after you break eye contact and turn away. Turn back and say ”Hey!” She will look up surprised. After she looks up, ask.. ”Are you on facebook?” in a calm normal tone of voice. Most girls are these days. As she says yes, pull out a pen and paper and say ” Great, write your facebook name down, I’ll like to talk to you again” As she is writing her name down, say ”… and write your number there too….”
Why do it this way, It’s surprising how fast women give out their facebook information. You are actually waiting while she is in the middle of writing her name to tell her to write her number down too, as she is already writing, she will likely keep writing.
Many guys mess things up by talking to a woman for long on the first meeting until she finally says she wants to leave. You are the one to leave her and not the other way round.One more thing, you don’t have to ask her out on the spot or show her in some way that you are very interested in her. Remember, you are only getting her contact information. Do this and you will see that getting her number the first time of meeting is not as hard as you think it might be.
