Stimulating your woman’s private part can become the most intimate and amazing experience for both of you. However, using your fingers to please women can be quite a difficult task. Especially if you do not have enough practice.
TREAT HER CLITORIS GENTLY
Probably the most common mistake men do when stimulating women’s clitoris with their fingers is when they imitate their penis stimulation. When it comes to her clitoris, any harsh stimulation can spoil her pleasure; first of all, explore her genitals, finding her clitoris, her labia and the opening of the vagina. Do not start right with the clitoris stimulation; give her some time to build up the arousal. Beside, rubbing her in the wrong place can be quite ineffective.
Run the tip of your fingers over her inner thighs, play with her pubic hair, and gently touch her labia to make her anticipate pleasure. Tease her until she hints you by spreading her legs wider or pushing up her thighs forward. There is no need to focus all your attention on her clitoris, at some point she may want your fingers inside her vagina and then again on her clitoris-be receptive to small clues she gives you, if your technique becomes predictable, it may sooner no longer bring her that pleasure she once experienced. Also sticking your fingers right into her vagina from the start is not a good idea, if she is not fully aroused, your fingers may become useless.
EXPLORE HER G-SPOT
G-spot stimulation can bring her very intense sensations and she will definitely appreciate if you will use your finger to stimulate her ht, shape your fingers in “come hither” motion and insert them inside her vagina. You may feel a rough area that is different from other surface and your woman can give you some clues if you found the right spot. Start slowly, gently sticking with your fingers inside. Then you may apply some pressure as G-spot is usually responsive to such stimulation. The more arouse she will become, the more intensity she may need.
