Independence in a nut shear is every body’s dream whether is perceived from the angle of being financially independent or moving out of your parents’ house into your own apartment. The fact still remains that it’s a very attractive option. But in this time of economic recession, one ought to think before taking the leap to freedom. There are several questions that you first need to ask yourself;
1. Can you afford it? The future is uncertain due to economic instability we are being faced with. The cost of living is always rising, even if you are earning good money from your job, backed with enough savings in the bank, the painful truth is that there’re unexpected expenses that you would have to spend for once you start living on your own e.g. cost of utilities, food, toiletries, etc may be things you take for granted while living at home.
2. How stable is your job and your source of income? The truth is that most people working are not guaranteed job security and in this case, the unforeseen can occur. The question is, how many months worth of rent and expenses will you be able to cover incase you lose your main source of income? What will be your back up plan when this happens?
3. Are you ready to do every thing on your own? E.g. cooking, cleaning, the house, laundering! Unless you have the resources to take care of all house chores which invariably will cost a fortune to always maintain.
4. Do you plan on living alone or with a roommate? The question is, are you matured enough to tolerate one another because, is never an easy task living with a friend or having a roommate. If you are going to settle for this, make sure you set your house rules before moving in together.
5. What is your reason for moving out? I.e. something you really want to do rather than something you feel you have to do or are you feeling the pressure i.e. from your parents or friends. Uncovering the real reason is very important because it will be able to give you an idea of your emotional maturity and readiness to take this bold step. TerryOg.
