My prayers !!! You see during my early years of life, by early years i mean 16-20. During this stage of my life, i was so choosy with my choice of friends and boyfriends. I had enough toasters but never liked the ones that came my way. I’m the type of gurl that wants everything to go well for me. I was only interested in rich and handsome guys which i got a few but it didn’t end well …
At age 20-23 i was still choosy but luck came my way and i made out with a good number of rich handsome guys. I broke up with the last one because he told me a gurl wasn’t his priority so, no future for us. At the age of 24 after i was through with my university years, my gurlfriends were already engaged and a few were married while i was yet to have a stable boyfriend.
I ran to God on my knees and told God i needed a responsible guy ofcourse a working class one too and without forgetting rich and handsome of course … It was like God didn’t answer me or he was punishing me for my old deeds. Still holding unto my desires, hoping there would be a change. I had a few toasters but they weren’t who i wanted. At 27, i was fed up with my life as things went well except my emotional life. I focused on my work and became officially an independent lady. At 30, pressure here and there, my mates were having babies while i was yet to be married.
At this age, over 30 i had no toaster at all not even a remark or comment let alone a proposal despite my nice baff_ups, designer wears, nice perfume, killer hill shoes and a cute car. So i thought to myself ”once a hot cake and now a burnt cake”. I use to turn heads and break necks but now i don’t even get an eye on me. I ran to God again said my prayers “Lord, gimme any man that would marry me” because i’m getting off the market stock if i’m not out already.
Most gurls are like this character, we shut out good people out of lives due to our ego and pride. We self destruct our lives beyond recognition. If only she wasn’t choosy her story would have changed. Love ain’t conditional, you don’t need a list of critera for a guy before you can go for him. Love beats critera. Love conquers all. It’s the most important thing in a relationship. It’s not too late to change so you won’t end up having different prayer(s) at different stages of our lives due to PRESSURE.
