How can i train my child to be a joy of the, present and hope of the future? To train some one, you must be trained, because what you have is what you will give.DISCIPLINE is a hall mark of success,to be able to achieve this the parent must be disciplined, to discipline child child.A parent that take things for granted without standard are bound to fail in child upbringing.Children learn from their parent’s,the way they talk: the usage of word either abusive or with respect Parent with high level of respect and discipline, there is no doubt that the child must be discipline and respectful as well.In any training discipline must be the major force, because a life without discipline is like a journey without a direction.A popular adage that said “spoil the rod and spear the child or spear the rod and spoil the child“.Is it the the rod you i spearing or the child? GUARDIANS AND INSTRUCTORS.Parent’s are meant to instruct their children and guard them on the instruction given to them.A frog that is running in the day time is either pursuing something or something is pursuing it,to be a good instructor and guardian you must have learn a lot and equipped with the right knowledge in child up bring, we must know the important of children first, understand that they are the leaders of tomorrow, again we the parent’s are growing older and one day they become our parent.MATURITY AND SELF CONTROL Training up a child required maturity and self control on the side of the parent,most parent are not matured and they lack self control. most parent dangled into child bearing without having the knowledge and knowing the basic prerequisite in child upbringing, without maturity and self control you cannot be able to give your child the right training. A child would always show the son or daughter of who they are.Whatsoever it will cost you to give your child a proper training please do it .Finally don’t imitate and have earlier understanding of child TEMPERAMENT so that you will know the right method to apply on that child.knowing the child temperament would help you a lot. STUDY BOOKS as a guild, don’t only lean on your own understanding.
BEAR THIS IN MIND:
- Shout on the child if shouting will be the solution
- Beat if beating will bring the solution
- Advice if advising will be the solution
- Evil communication corrupt good manner, don’t allow your child to make friends to those you know they cannot contribute to the child positively.
- Show them care and love.
- Don’t pamper but tolerate when necessary.
- Above all Prayers.
