How can i have my marriage unbreakable? Is it possible to stay in marriage unbreakable? Is divorce the best way to resolve differences in marriage? can are reconcile my broken marriage?
The shape and strength of every building lies on their foundation,any house with a faulty foundation would surely face a collapse also any marriage with a good foundation will certainly shine. In a relation any marriage with a faulty foundation have their time limit with a great struggle before it collapse.The couples may be good or bad,a building may look good with a good quality materials and good plan but the foundation was not properly done must have a problem.Every thing in live passes through a test of time, without a good foundation it will not succeed the test of time.what did i mean by the test of time:Raining season with heavy storm,wind and during dry season.
Marriage is a joining of no excuse, an Institution without graduation.marriage been a joining of no excuse have to do with you alone because is a decision you would take on your own without nobody forcing you into it:a personal decision,personal conviction,emotional will and sacrifice.
How can i build the right foundation that can lead to unbreakable marriage:
DISCIPLINE : have a guiding principle of choice,that is knowing what you want in life don’t dangle into any thing that comes your way,every body is not meant for you,in marriage their is particular person that is mean for you.
DON’T PLAY GAME:boy friends and girl friends is not a marriage,if that is the case as a girl your first boy friend suppose to be your husband as well the guys.if you really want your real partner to come to you stay off from boy friends and girl friends as in intimacy practicing sex,it blindfold your eyes, sex will never reveal to you the through character of your partner.(Totally avoid premarital sex,sex for money,sex for love,Sex is not love aside marriage.
The problem of broken marriages lies on this,example a girl that is being dis-flowered at the age of Twelve,she happen to get marriage at the age of Twenty five between this period lets take a statistic of a number of penetrations on her of different men and at a different time.Then it become impossible to talk about sex compatibility because sex compatibility suppose to be on the very person you dis- flowered and that dis- flowered you.
UNDERSTAND YOUR EMOTION: Emotion is stronger than knowledge but it take knowledge to control emotion,knowing your emotion would help you to discipline yourself sexually.and understand the fact that only your husband suppose to have access to your body.
AVOID SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE: This is only way you can know the through character of your partner,you may ask if i did not succumb to his demand he might cheat on me, if he does that, in marriage he will still remain cheat vice-visa.
BE HONEST by developing a trustful character,be open minded and don’t hid your past mistake and bad experience which may come out later.
Any foundation aside God will not stand because He is the instituter of marriage.
