Sex is usually a good feeling when two people with a mutual emotion stimulates the lust within but then, it can destroy the best friendship ever. This was the case as George and Adaeze chilled together as usual with no ulterior motives since they grew up together like brothers and sisters. They both used to play under the rain when it poured; they shared a common childhood of mischief and lovely memories. They grew up seeing themselves naked so the difference in their sex didn’t make any sense as a barrier and even when they grew up to the life, George was still there as a shoulder to cry on, like the times when her first boyfriend took her virginity and when the heart breaks came, and kept coming, George gave her a reason to believe that all boys were not the same or maybe they are but can behave differently depending on the girl as his case was with her.
Now they were both grown and sexy but that part didn’t strike them. Although they were both very fine and sexy, they had never found themselves attractive or sexually attracted to one another so as they grew even older the bond became stronger with no strings attached talk less of being lustful of each other.
George and Adaeze were so happy as best friends till that day when they became too close for comfort as they played snakes and ladder alone with a little R.kelly as the soundtrack in the red lighted room while sharing a pack of the Don Simon Red wine. They had no ulterior motives as usual till the mood became intense, then their eyes got dim and sexy as he sensed that her mind was wet and deep as her breadth. Truly Adaeze’s felt her body shake while starring at the gap between George’s teeth ( as she wondered why all of a sudden, she has started to pay attention to his looks) , he smiled in mischief while asking her “ are you okay Zay,“ and in that barry tone soft seductive voice, zay became too lazy to control her abnormal thought as it was conspicuous that they both could feel the sexiness in the air and deep within Adaeze she could sense the global warming between her legs as she gently raised her neck while they grew closer till their lips met, then these souls met and their consciousness left.
“please don’t take my clothes off yet” she thought she said, but in reality her spirit was way too weak to connect with sanity as they were already some kisses deep. They both cuddled and kissed till they had themselves lay dead naked in bed, fondling the shits without words. With just moans and heavy breathing, they ate themselves up as if they could go further into an orgasmic fantasy without limits in terms of the climax they felt. For hours they were totally drowned in the wetness of their own nakedness but yet, feeling overdressed with none of their clothes, guards or fantasies left. That was how good the sex was, perhaps it was the best sex, but how good was it as this one single action gave birth to the death of their friendship.
If only that one action could be reversed, things would have been just fine again, but now all they do is try to resist the complexity they have inflicted in their hearts. They wish things were different as every time they see nowadays, all they do is try to kill the guilt but the eye contact just wouldn’t let them. How could it when they both were in a relationship with some other persons and to think that each of their partners had always thought innocence of their acceptable childhood friendship and this recent contradiction wasn’t only disgusting but a betrayal to everyone that knew their story and envied them. These days all they do is try to keep off their paths else they meet only to fight the guilt sprinkled with a further bit of the same temptation. And even when they are apart, the sweet painful memories comes knocking and when they pretend to have moved on, every single sign., thought and arguments shows a new trend of jealousy when anyone of them sights the other with a potential love bird, this emotion that was usually not there before compiles further complications which cannot be expressed in words as “no string attached” is falsely practiced.
This story might be blowing two opposite sex best friends who later started making love a little bit out of proportion as you might wonder what the big deal is, perhaps you have found yourself in such shoes when friendship becomes sexual but the degree of this normal activity that is being blown paranormal by me should not be under emphasized. If we have grown matured enough to know that it’s not every capacity you have that must be utilized, that is to say that it’s not everybody that you come in contact with that should be a sex partner even when you have the capacity and edge towards it. As we grow and become more successful in our deeds, a true test of the maturity in us and our wants should be in its control. Words of my father says “ A successful man can get any woman he so desires but that doesn’t make him a man, what does is his ability to control himself”.
Greatness should come with an achievement of a consciousness of what shouldn’t be and one of them is that there are certain people that deserves a forever slot in your life and the easiest way to lose a “forever friend” is to get sexual or intimate and also as you move deeper into a successful lifetime by whatever virtues you see success, and by its achievement we realize that the act of sex is a bit over rated as a successful man (contextually that is) or woman can get any opposite sex person she desire also, so that shouldn’t be a big deal but what should be is our maturity towards such desire in what we want as that should not necessarily be what’s best to have and in this comes self control.
All around us lays the tales of best friends in love. All over the place lies people who sleep with their opposite sex friends, best friends sisters, or brothers as the case may be. Everyday people sleep with the siblings of their partners and so on. Totally I agree with the fact that it is not an abominable taboo but it shows our true colour in relation to the various shades of integrity, trust, maturity and respect of which we trade with a mere emotion of lust and “infactuational love” otherwise called crush and then never again will any of this virtues be retrieved. In our quest for fun and adventure we trade what’s important with what is desirable, we swim in a river of crush only to drown the trust that could have been, we engage in actions that translates later into regrets, we lose our future to the present, we kill friendship for relationship to be born and then we leave both forever thus losing out eventually. To me I really don’t care much about relationship as my friends remain forever in my heart knowing that relationship and sex comes and goes but “true” friends remain forever with us, way after all the thoughts, temptation and fun is gone and in this comes the better drive.
In my lifetime I’ve realized how uncomfortable it is to even talk about this subject especially with the people whom we are vulnerably relative within the confinement of these situations. Although the idea comes conspicuously at us every time with the thoughts breathing as we do right inside of us. We’ve seen people lose great friendship with their peers just because they betrayed the comfort and trust of a friend by sleeping with that friend’s sibling which is a bit manageable as compared to when a friend sleeps with the others partner. This situations is what is described as crossing the line only to regret the fact that you cannot find your way back to how things used to be as the mark permanently stays stuck and as disgusting as it may sound, its sure satisfies the human crave for adventure and the sensation it brings. Whether or not you have or have not been a part of such story (or at least yet), one thing to learn from this is to not be destructive with your criticism but rather just like most offenses you haven’t committed yet, please learn to never say never because even In saying that, there are two “never’s” (meaning that you have just brocken the rule of saying “never say never” as never has been said twice). But rather, be conscious of your humanity and the flaws that comes with it with while trying to be in control of yourself with this three R’s (Respect for yourself, Respect for others and Responsibility for your actions) and as you learn the act of control, may its good spirit protects and guide you away from its otherwise.
Written By Uwaoma Eizu
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