Wife:
Go to a standard store. Get some massage ointment, cream, lotion etc. Bath together on Saturday ‘nite’. Massage him, let him show you where. Even if you are an amateur, your touch will do the magic.
Do his favourite meal on Sunday. Cuddle together after the meal and watch a movie together.
Sunday night….! Get yourself prepared (tell your brain to prepare). No holding back! Enjoy yourself like you did when you first marry. Ask him to pray for you.
Husband:
Give your wife that thingshe has been asking you for a long long time (if you can afford it).
Your wife wants to spend time with you. Create time for her. Listen to her. Ask what her fears and worries are.
Hold her hands and pray for her.
Here is more…
- Put down everything to greet your spouse at the end of each day.
- When your spouse lie down on the couch, get him/her a pillow.
- Hold hands instead of holding the remote control.
- Read a favourite book together (I suggest you copy this article and read out to him/her).
- When you disagree, always acknowledge the possibility that you could be wrong.
- Get to know your in-laws. Plan to visit or invite an in-law for lunch or dinner.
- Get involved in each other’s ‘ministry’ or get involved in a new ministry together.
- Pray together more often.
