It is my profound belief that much of the confusion that has bedeviled many societies and nations of the world today, as manifested in the multifaceted forms of crass societal ills can find remediation if most people are given easy access to the accurate information that is necessary for the establishment of proper and fulfilling human relationships or happy functional family units which will in turn provide true foundations for building proper societies. I have no doubt that the issues presented here will ensure the attainment of the highest possible level of satisfaction for everyone who will give serious consideration to them in his or her relationship.
If the family is indeed the bedrock and microcosm of the society, then it holds true that any improvement in the establishment and well being of the basic family units within a society will translate to an improvement in the larger society. It is the family relationships and units that constitute the society which produces its leaders,(leaders do not produce the society).
When family relationships are established on faulty foundations, it is inevitable for discontentment, disillusionment and possible hostility to set in as a natural outcome of such dysfunctional relationships. It is to be expected that when a child learns negative character traits such as hostility at home, he/she will readily see the larger society as an enhanced platform to amplify his or her hostility. similar conduct or behavioural pattern will be expected in his or her adult life because it is not easily possible for mature adults to unlearn what was instilled in them during their formative stages of life such as childhood and adolescence.
I build on the premise that everyone will prefer to have a happy and fulfilling family relationship, irrespective of social status or station in life, understanding that the relative amount of happiness or sadness that we receive in life depends on the success or failure of our relationships with others within our sphere of contact. When the foundation of our family relationship is right, we require a minimal amount of conscious effort to build and sustain such relationships. Less effort naturally translates to less stress or friction, and more love and understanding within the family relationship.
