“You are a human magnet; you attract into your life people, situations and circumstances that are in harmony with your dominant thoughts. Things are not happening to you. Things are happening because of you” – Richard Carwell
Women are the most beautiful creatures on earth. The creator invested an undeniable and enormous quantity of elegance and grandeur into her.
Beauty is the quality of been pleasant to the senses. Everybody loves and appreciate beauty. I’m yet to meet a man who doesn’t like a beautiful woman. Beauty pageants are organized for female contestants to select the most beautiful lady in a particular region or in the world. The advertising industry often uses beautiful women as models in their campaign.
The fashion industry has succeeded in dictating trends on what beauty is per time. One side-effect of this is that it causes many women to suffer from identity crises and low self image. Media projects the latest trends as dictated by the fashion industry which in a short while become generally acceptable. Consequently, many women struggle to meet up with what is in vogue so as not to be out of touch with the latest fashion.
BEAUTIFUL OR FASHIONABLE
The craze to be up to date with fashion trends has reduced many women to wind-chasers. There’s nothing wrong with been fashionable. However, when we take extreme actions in order to be in tune with what is in vogue, we cause problems for ourselves.
Too much emphasis has been on the looks, size, shape and style. In fact, the buzz word is “sexy”. Media explicitly depicts and dictates what a sexy woman is like. A lot of ladies are therefore trying to make-up for what they think they lack and those who feel they don’t meet up sentence themselves to self pity. What a tragedy?
What exactly are they making up to? They’re making up to meet up with the standards set by the fashion industry. The truth is that fashion is a trend and it keeps changing. What is fashionable today may not be fashionable tomorrow. Thus, altering body shapes and size to meet up is like chasing after the wind.
A shift in paradigm is crucial to curbing this plaque on women populace. Who told you that you’re not beautiful? Who says you’re not sexy?
Shortly, I’ll be sharing with you few tips to making yourself beautiful far beyond what any man can resist and far above what any industry trend can surpass.
- Learn to make up your mind
Too much resource has been spent on making up the face and the body while little attention is paid to the mind. The quality of your thoughts determines the quality of your life. You must constantly entertain beautiful thoughts. Thoughts are powerful. What we think about, we bring about. You must believe that you’re beautiful because you’re actually beautiful. Do you know that your external world will always reflect your thoughts, pictures and images that flow through your mind?
Build up your mind. Learn how to take decisions effectively. The ability to effectively take decisions with discretion is an expression of priceless beauty. Watch what enters your mind. Refuse to spend a lot of time feeding your minds with junks from television. Read good books. Listen to good music. Watch inspiring movies. Select good friends.
- Develop a healthy self-esteem.
Like yourself. Accept yourself and respect yourself as a valuable and worthwhile person. Create and maintain a credible value system. Have a personal standard of excellence. Be smart. Exude confidence. Refuse to fear. Be bold. Have a sense of purpose and direction in life. Speak and act from our own convictions. Take responsibility for our own life. Love others and accept them for who they are.
- Be honest
Honesty is the best policy. “Honesty develops character, as well as credibility and trust, all of which are the building blocks of high self-esteem and healthy relationships. Being honest isn’t a goal that you check off a list—it’s an ongoing process that will both challenge and benefit you throughout your life. Nothing is as liberating as having nothing to hide”. Refuse to be a people pleaser and be yourself. Learn to apologize too. Be a woman of your words. Speak the truth in love. Show integrity.
- Always wear a smile
Your packaging is incomplete without a smile. A smile travels longer and lingers in people’s heart more than any other thing they see on you. You can impress other people with your enthusiasm, sweetness, kindness, warmth, sincerity, generosity, sensitivity, cheerfulness, and passion. Smiling Lifts the Face and Makes You Look Younger. Smiling Makes Us Attractive. It helps you stay positive and above all it is contagious.
- Exhibit your own style
Choose your style. Learn how to create effect with your presence. You are unique. Stop trying to be like every other person. Be yourself. Create your own impression. Demonstrate a more refined sense of lifestyle, good tastes, and appropriate social behavior.
