I AM GETTING BORED IN MY RELATIONSHIP.CAN THIS 8 TIPS HELP?

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.A relationship that will last is built on sacrifice.It is a team and everyone has a role to play to make it work well.HE

RE are eight tips to fight boredom and get the best of your relationship with your partner

1*The grass is not greener on the other side.Unless you change yourself, you will find life turns into the same old mud

2*Change involves risk and love involves pain.There is no way around this-you have to journey into it.All love ends in some sort of heartbreak, even if it’s death that part us-but we’re worth it.

3*When you reach the boring state of your relationship,soldier on.Do this by getting closer, not withdrawing.Ask your partner or spouse for help-tell them you feel a bit depressed, anxious or insecure and get them to give you a boost.

4*Discuss changing the way you live, from the minor details(the colour of the light in your bedroom) to the major( where you live, the work you do, whether you have a family or not and your level of intimacy with them)

5*Introduce more adrenaline into your life by setting yourself an intimidating challenge -anything from starting a business or vocations.

6*Get involved in  a social activity which lets you meet people under pressure.I don’t mean you have to work with accidents victims or wounded soldiers but-but giving help where and when it is needed.

7*Remind yourself why you like your partner- and tell them the reasons.In order to breaK NEW GROUND, YOU MUST INVEST IN THE RELATIONSHIP.

8*Spend some time on your own-absence really does make the heart grow fonder.

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  • DOMDANDAV

    That is good piece.I AGREEE WITH THIS PIECE.THANKS FOR THE POST

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_WDDXRJO6FKYRHDM4OT4CMH4HGA chinonye

    How about the issue of trying all you can to sustain a relationship and it is still getting more boring? In that case, what do you do?

    In my own opinion, I think God has different ways of talking to us about issues like this. If the two people are not yet joined, this might be a pointer that there are dangers ahead but if it can be amicably resolved between the two partners, I see it also as a pointer that something good is going to come out of the relationship.

    But in a case where the two people are already joined, as in married. Then whoever that is feeling boring should meet his partner and let him know the areas she is bored, then two of them can join hands together to work it out. Never allow the experience to drag to the extent of giving your spouse gap for a long time, for this spoils relationship.

    Always keep the communication line OPEN.